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Tuesday, 27 March 2012
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Last month, an old classmate has arranged a chance for us to write and share about what had happened in the past 15 years in facebook. I have chosen to write about 2006. B4 i started writing, i was having a look in my xanga as thought i did write down some feeling here, but is not true. I was thinking i was having a frustrated 2006, but actually most of the things i wrote down here was happy daily life. At that moment, i was thinking, maybe i should write more and count the blessing. however, i know here is "faat mo-ing".
Last week, b4 cece went to school, he asked me (in cantonese):
Cece: when papi in work, me in school, do you have fear for staying home alone?
Me: Not really fear, only little sad.
Cece: I will be back fast!
(just feel so touching at that moment, i feel that my son is growing up and can even take care of me)
忽爾十五載(1997-2012)
﹣ 2006
2006年,結婚三年,移居意大利三年。一個雖說不上長的時間,但是基本生活算是適應了,或者與其用適應,倒不如用習慣比較貼切。始終在香港土生土長生活了二十五年,不會期望能夠完完全全的溶入另一個新環境。當地人愛問我喜歡香港還是意大利多些,我會答,待我在這裡生活過二十五年後才能作比較。
結婚三年,新生活上了軌道,很自然地希望為這個家庭加添新成員。可是日子一天一天的過,每個月總是不斷重複面對失望。不是有很多意外懷孕的新聞麼? 你身邊的朋友,或是朋友的朋友不就是在毫無心理準備下懷孕麼? 為什麼對於別人,一樣那麼容易得到的東西, 對於我們是如此困難?
每次當親朋戚友打趣的問起幾時生小朋友時,我的內心都很難受,還要笑笑口回答順其自然吧,實際上心底那句是,我也很想,但是老是不成功又可以怎麼樣。這個時候,不知怎的,總會有很多有經驗的媽媽,甚至是一些毫無經驗的人仕會在你身邊獻計,她們總是覺得沒有可能等這樣久仍然沒有消息。但是她們又可會知道我在網上看過多少資料,流過多少眼淚。
2006年中,我們接受了醫生的建議,嘗試口服排卵藥,可是過了四個月仍然沒有動靜。現在回想起四個月,或是當年等待的兩年,並不是一個很長的時 間,但是對於在熱窩上的我們,真的不想久留,我們決定去尋求專門協助。 十一月中到醫生去做了一次平估,預計要等到零七年一月放完聖誕新年假期先可以開始療程。那個時候剛巧遇上回港特價機票,於是我決定預支明年的回港 quota,暫時放下一切, 先回香港吃喝玩樂,家人團眾一番, 一個月後回來再從新作戰。就是這樣,十一月中買了機票, 十一月尾便回港渡假。
快樂的時光永遠都是過得特別快,轉眼間又將快回意國,這個月的經期亦遲了近三個星期。我一直都沒有在意, 只覺得是因為十一月開始停服了排卵藥, 加上地域的改變, 經期變得不定時亦不足為奇。不過由於在香港買驗孕棒比歐洲平好幾倍, 還是決定去買一下,順便買些回去留用。
好記得是十二月二十三日(星期六), 起床後便驗孕, 可能是因為睡眼惺忪, 檢驗結果無效! 當時真的考慮過到底還要再驗還是作罷。不過由於我買了特價一百元四枝的驗孕棒,所以仍是決定多來一次. 這次的結果出乎意料的快,一條又一條紅線在不出三十秒間先後出現! 我來不及定過神來便走到廚房告訴媽媽。我當然不敢相信這個結果,還說很驚(像是未婚懷孕,不知如何是好)!回想過來也覺得可笑。媽媽比我冷靜得多,她說, 怕甚麼? 應該是開心才對!由於我仍不敢相信這個奇蹟般的結果,我再去買了另一枝驗孕棒,這次更選了店中最貴那款!
很高興這個特別的時刻能夠和媽媽一同分享,BB的爸爸反而是透過短訊得知!
十二月二十五日,聖誕節晚,我和肚裏面的BB一同返回意大利。這是我們最美好的聖誕禮物。
兒子現在四歲半了,當年的情景感覺既是那麼遠又是那麼近。現在當我被兒子氣得快要大發雷庭時,在我破口大罵之先,應該好好回想一下當日的得來不易!
Wednesday, 08 February 2012
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HAPPY 2012, HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR
Yes, i am little late, but this blog is not yet closed, haha.
Is already Feb! We have our first real snow on Feb 1 (actually started on Jan 31 evening). And it have been snowing feel times during the week too. It seems that coming friday going to snow again. And we keep having under 0 in the past week even during day time. Is true that is the coolest winter in the past years even it arrived abit late.
Because of the snow in europe, Marco got problem on his way back from business trip in Dallas, they couldn't land in heathrow but flied to ireland and slept a night there, finally delayed 30 hours b4 can arrive home on 6th 8pm. Sure he got us alot of presents!
During the week marco in usa, i lost 2kg! Yeah! I tried to eat less and it works! Hope can keep that and if can loose another 1 to 2kg, i will be even more happy.
I have restarted my italiano lesson on 6th (mon) also. Since cece's school offering free italiano course for moms, so i have applied, However, the teacher said the level is too easy for me and she thinks i will feel boring soon. Then 80% of the moms there are from pakinstan, and some of them also went with young kids, so was quite a mess in the first lesson. They said those moms who don't have kid studying in this school may not be able to come. I will still go next week for see how is the situation, but if i don't go can give a space to those mom really needs, maybe i better don't go. As the first lesson they are really teaching Come ti chiami? Quanti anni hai? Da dove vieni? And some mom don't even know how to write a b c too. In the beginning, i thought to go there is also for make some new friends, but now, since they all talk their mother language and in their own group already, seems not easy for me to be friend with them. There has another mom from africa who was sitting next to me, she also studied italiano b4, we got near same level, so will see if she will stay or not.
Feb 4th got a super happy gathering in our home with my Hkese friends (and their family) here, we have ate alot and sure talked alot too.
Our new house is in progress, hope everything will goes smooth and we can move there in spring.
Wednesday, 11 January 2012
Sunday, 25 December 2011
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WHY JESUS IS GREATER THAN SANTA CLAUS Santa lives at the North Pole. JESUS is everywhere. Santa rides in a sleigh. JESUS rides on the wind and walks on the water. Santa comes but once a year. JESUS is an ever present help. Santa fills your stockings with goodies. JESUS supplies all your needs. Santa comes down your chimney uninvited. JESUS stands at your door and knocks, and then enters your heart when invited. You have to wait in line to see Santa. JESUS is as close as the mention of His name. Santa lets you sit on his lap. JESUS lets you rest in His arms. Santa doesn't know your name, all he can say is "Hi little boy or girl, what's your name?" JESUS knew your name before you did. Not only does He know your name, He knows your address too. He knows your history and future and He even knows how many hairs are on your head. Santa has a belly like a bowl full of jelly. JESUS has a heart full of love. All Santa can offer is HO HO HO. JESUS offers Health, Help and Hope. Santa says "You better not cry." JESUS says "Cast all your cares on me for I care for you." Santa's little helpers make toys. JESUS makes new life, mends wounded hearts, repairs broken homes and builds mansions. Santa may make you chuckle but. JESUS gives you joy that is your strength. While Santa puts gifts under your tree. JESUS became our gift and died on a tree. Yes, from sin He sets us free! Now thanks be to God for his unspeakable gift! 2 Corinthians 9:15 But to each one of us was the grace given according to the measure of the gift of Christ. Ephesians 4:7 URL: http://www.abetterhope.com/hope/birthday.html
Saturday, 24 December 2011
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MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY 2012!!
Holiday from Dec 23 to Jan 8!! I was thinking can sleep more during holiday and no need to wake up early. However, i woke up at 7:10am yesterday and 7:07am today without alarm!!! Why i even wake up half an hour earlier than need to go to school? i think i really getting old!! I want to sleep 12 hourss!
5 years (and 1 day) ago, i discovered cece was inside me, he is all the time the best christmas presents ever!!

Thursday, 27 October 2011
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A DAY to REMEMBER
HAPPY!
Yesterday i have received the hacken concert cds i ordered near 1 month ago! And then i found the soap drama (triumph in the skies) want to watch for long time. It got 30 epi and i already watching the 11th one after a day, hehee. Love "cooking" drama.
And today i have met Fatoumata while waiting for pick up cesare in school!!!! She is my classmate for scuola media in 2004-2005! After that maybe we only met once and haven't met her for 5-6 years already. I have sent her msg after cece born but she hasn't replied. Today when we were waiting at the school gate, i saw her but i was not sure if is her, as she is from africa and for me, alot of african looks similar (maybe they think the same for asian). I was just thinking if she really fotou and recognise me, she will tell ciao to me too! And then when the school gate opened, she really asked if i am grace!!! hoooooo......so touching!!! She also got a baby of 3 years old and just started kindergarden this year. So mean mostly we have more chance to meet in the future!
Tonight we are going to cirus, as Giorgia (mom of alessandra) gave us 2 tickets as she needs to work and her hubby don't want to go alone with the alessandra. I knew them in the park since cesare was 8 months old (alessandra was 4 months), but in these 2 years, not many time played together in park, and started from this year, she also studying in the same school as cesare, also same class, so sometimes after school, they played together in the park too. Is nice.....as that means i also knew some moms in school too.
p.s. today is my chinese bday!
Tuesday, 25 October 2011
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RAINNY DAY -forgot the phone at home ( actually was we were in hurry when go to school with cece n i just didn't want to bring the phone n the room) - forgot to bring my keys!! Lucky that when i walked to the bar where marco usually have breakfast, he was still there, thanks god. So, - we went shopping n 1215 we got appointments for do laser. I got some small dots on the neck need to remove while he got some in the body. First time for us. - still raining now and big chance need to drive under rain for go to swim with cece later.
Friday, 14 October 2011
Monday, 10 October 2011
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TOM TOM Today is our 104 months married. Marco got me a "TOM TOM", i told him i don't need that as i don't think i will go to place i don't know. I know he just can't resist from the under price discount, heehee. But i will still put it in duck duck. I finally drove to a "new" place on sat (mean drive without marco). Actually i don't like driving n if i can reach by bus easy or can walk there i really don't want to drive. I went to toy center with cece on sat as today his best friend in school ledio has bday party in the madonald in that area, so i want to "try" the road once. I think was not a good choice for go there on sat afternoon n was super crowd, lucky still have parking. Hope today will be fine too. Those people i know used to write in xanga already stopped blogging in xanga, there Are some moments i also think of quit (also for yblog), i think is a record writing here for 8 years already. Ah, we bought a house last week which is the biggest news recently. The house need to renew, maybe we can move in around april 2012. I asked marco how he feel after bought the house, he said.....is something never bought b4.... Haha.
Tuesday, 27 September 2011
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FIRST SWIMMING LESSON for CESARE
Today i am going to drive duck duck to pick up cesare from school and then go for his first swimming lesson. Last week we already been there once for a few mins' "test", teacher said he did well and he seems enjoyed too. He has been asking me few time during the week if we are going to swim after school. 2 years ago when i learnt driving, the main purpose is for drive cece, today finally is the time. Honestly i don't like to drive and i still feel pressure no matter where i need to drive, but because of cece, i need to overcome that. I just keep telling myself that i am just doing what other moms can do. This morning when Marco tells cesare to have fun in the lesson, he told marco, "hope mammy won't get lost!!!!" (in italiano of course). Ha....he don't trust much my driving too. Ok, i will add oil together with him!
In the past week, we got alot of visitors from HK. First is last wed (21st), Doish was in Milan and she came to visit us with her friends who are also FA. We only have a 3.5 hours' gathering but we did go to brescia centro and have dinner together. Then on sunday (25th), Man Yan and Gloira passby Milan on their way to spain, since is a sunday, me and cece took the train to milan for meet them, even we got only 4 hours' time, we did go up to duomo and have lunch.
Last fri morning 630am, cece fall down from his bed, from the stairs, thanks god that the injure was not that serious, after that, Marco made a gate for put at the end of the bed and shouldn't have anymore accident. Actually he has been sleeping there over 1 year and is the first time got accident.
Last night (should be early this morning as was already after 1am), i have placed an order in yesasia. Is agessss that i didn't order anything there. When i first arrived italy, still have the "homesick" and ordered few times in yesasia but i think for over 5 years i didn't place any order. Last night i found that hacken's concert cd released so i immediately go to check in yesasia and placed the order together with a box set of 我們這一家 vcd in case to have the free shipping. Hope can receive soooon. Suddenly i sound like a little fans.
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